Christmas Traditions with Young Kiddos

December 21, 2020

 Wow wow wow it's the week of Christmas!! Before having kids I loathed seeing December tick away so quickly, but now my excitement is right alongside Jack's. I can't wait to see the boys receive their gifts on Christmas morning!!












One of my goals this month was to make a list of traditions for our family to do (or start) this year, but in actuality no list was made and were just rolling with the ideas in my head and things we've loved from past years.











After having little ones I quickly realized my usual traditions could use some adjusting. My expectations needed to shift from keeping things tidy to letting the kids make the mess. Like most preschoolers and toddlers, my boys have short attention spans and they find the same joy in a pile of dirt as they do in a ball pit. Celebrating in a way that is simple for them and for us parents is a win. I am all for fewer meltdowns and more magical holiday moments. 

Here are some of things we have done and will do this week!!


Rent Christmas books from our library

It's fun, it's free, and the boys' shelves are stocked with new books for us to read at home. Some of our favorites we borrowed are Itsy Bitsy ChristmasA Charlie Brown Christmas, and Twas the Night Before Christmas on Sesame Street.


Christmas movie night

Jack is all about a movie night. We make it extra special by popping popcorn over the stove and snuggling up on the couch together. This year we watched A Charlie Brown Christmas and The Star. 


Jammy Cocoa Christmas

Thanks to Shay Shull's yearly tradition we've adopted it too. Since our kids are still in car seats we tweak this tradition by going through Starbucks' drive thru because why get kids out of their seats when you don't have to?? ;) So put on your pj's, hop in the car, sing along to the Christmas tunes and drive to find all the pretty lights! Bonus points if the kids fall asleep before you get home. 


Dance parties/Guitar carols

In our house we break a leg and bust a move at least 2-3x a week. How is this a tradition? Simply turn off the lights, let the tree be your disco ball and play some Christmas jams. Our personal fav is Run Run Rudolph. Did you know kids actually sleep better by using up energy whereas adults need to slow down to tell their bodies to prepare for sleep? Dance away party people. 


Pick out a Christmas present for sibling 

This might be my favorite tradition because as Jack grows older we get to instill little nuggets of goodness like the gift of giving! Before he picked out Peter's gift we told him he would have to earn the money by doing chores around the house. Jack was ready to pick up sticks and sweep the floors that very moment. He was SO excited. There may be tape all over Peter's gift but its so sweet seeing him take ownership of gifting his baby bro.


Christmas morning cinnamon rolls 

When I was a kid I remember every Christmas morning my mom would make blueberry muffins. It was something so simple but it stuck with me and added to the beauty of the morning. This year I will make these homemade cinnamon rolls with maple frosting on Christmas Eve so that Christmas morning all I have to do is pop them in the oven and frost them. 



Do tell! What were your favorite Christmas traditions as a kid? Always open to new ideas to celebrate the best season of all. 

Candy Cane Sugar Scrub

December 15, 2020


Get ready to pamper yourself or your loved one with a festive sugar scrub that looks as great as it smells. The magic to this scrub is in whipping the coconut oil so it is soft yet exfoliates the skin.


Whipped Candy Cane Sugar Scrub

Recipe makes 2, 4oz jars of sugar scrub

Ingredients
1 cup solid coconut oil (Oil will melt in warm temps. If melted put in fridge to solidify before making)
8-10 drops peppermint essential oil
1 cup white sugar, divided in half
2 drops red food coloring 
4 oz glass jar

Directions
1. Mix 1/2 cup white sugar with 1 drop red food coloring in a bowl and set aside
2. Beat with a hand mixer 1/2 cup white sugar with 1 cup coconut oil till whipped and fluffy.
3. Stir in 8 drops peppermint oil
4. Combine with a spoon the pink sugar mixture into the whipped coconut oil mixture.
5. Scoop into two glass jars.
6. Add a label or make your own and tie with twine! Totally optional but entirely festive and cute.










These make great favors or small gifts! Merry pampering!

Holiday Home Tour

December 8, 2020

Our fireplace is aglow and scents of cinnamon and spruce fill the air!! Welcome to our holiday home tour!





Something about the house being decked in garland and lights makes me so giddy I never want to leave home. Okay.. the irony is not lost on me that we technically cant go anywhere #facepalm. Wishing warmth and magic to your homes as we willingly (or begrudgingly) embrace our inner homebody!! xox

December Goals

December 2, 2020







Ho-ho-holy cow can you believe it's December? I so vividly remember the early months of January-March that it feels surreal to be at the end of this year already. This month is one of my favorites but I almost feel like I have to hold back my holiday cheer. Merry & Bright feels very contradictory when there is an air of fear and sadness from everyone everywhere. 

This year has costed us all something. This December, more than ever for me, magnifies the cost of Jesus' life. The gift he gave with His life is one I am marked by. Forever changed. Indebted and grateful. Ya'll I LOVE the mechanics of Christmas (baking, decorating, traditions, music, movies) but I am not willing to let the fun of those things crowd out the reminder of the hope I have in Him. 

Hope that He will right every wrong  
Hope that He will make all things new 
Hope that He has overcome when the world says otherwise
Hope that He is Immanuel (God with us) despite what I feel/see/think
Hope that His love for me is everything I desire

If you're looking for permission to celebrate look no further. We can celebrate this season in the face of sadness/fear/worry, because what were ultimately saying is we have hope. And, friends, that's a reason for "singing loud for all to hear." ;)
 
A look at November goals...
Make Christmas lists and set budgets in time for end of month deals
- Order our Christmas cards
- Celebrate Jack's 4th birthday!
- Put away fall decor and then deck the halls ;)
- #getaftergrateful every day this month 
- Print our new family photos (still need to pick out my favorites to print.. so hard to choose!)

December Goals
Read Honest Advent each day-- so excited for this one!  
Re-plan hosting friends' Christmas in a way that's still connected and fun
Write out family traditions we want to continue or start this month
Pick out family photos to print
Clean out coat closet and purchase needed winter gear for kids
Fix record player
Learn to play Christmas songs on the guitar

Soup Sundays

November 19, 2020

 Cooking soup is my favorite because it typically involves 3 simple tasks: chopping, pouring and stirring. Soup is also a great way to eat a ton of veggies while tasting delicious. We started soup Sundays in October and it has been so fun sampling a ton of different recipes. Some of the recipes are staples from years past, some new, and some were going to leave off the list because they were not winners (looking at you sweet potato soup). 


photo via Gimme Some Oven 

Autumn Wild Rice Soup: Leading off strong with my personal favorite. This dish will leave you full and satisfied. This recipe gives you the option to add chicken but I have yet to add it because it's so flavorful with just veggies. Pro tip: add the canned coconut milk instead of making a cream sauce. You will thank me later. So creamy and healthy!


Sausage and Red Pepper Soup: If you love a good noodle this is your soup! The flavor is savory and the recipe is simple. The thick egg noodles and subtle spice from the Italian sausage make this recipe a repeater for our fam.


Chicken Pot Pie Soup: This was a new recipe and we were not disappointed! Mark and I were impressed by just how good this one is for being so healthy. Don't let the recipe freak you out, it is way simpler to prepare than it looks. The blended steamed cauliflower is the MVP in this dish. It packs in all the nutrients while tasting like a creamy mashed potato. 


Stuffed Pepper Soup: Last but not least I give you stuffed peppers in soup form. :) Whole30 compliant if you sub the rice for cauliflower rice. This one had Mark going back for seconds so you can rest assure it's good. 


Don't forget to pair with your fav crusty bread or baguette! Bon' Appetit! 

Jack's 4th Birthday + Birthday Interview

November 11, 2020


And just like that my baby is 4! It's so wild and fun watching this little human become his own person. That sounds ridiculous because yes he is a growing kid, but when it's your kid it just hits you in the feels. #proudmom

This boy is obsessed with Pokemon. Everything from his party to his gifts were Pokemon related. He goes all in for whatever he loves and I love him for it. We hosted our immediate family and his closest friend over for a pre-birthday bash. We served a creamy penne pasta dish with a side of mixed salad and homemade breadsticks. 

The birthday cake was a pre-made cake from Eston's bakery (because I waited last minute to decide I was going to buy one.. go Mom!). Ya'll if ya know, ya know.. Eston's is GOOD. 

Jack wanted a strawberry cake so that meant I had to get their strawberries and cream cake which came topped with their signature pink flowers (another "go Mom!" moment for waiting last minute). Mark came up with the idea to scrape off the flowers, mix red food coloring and make a pokeball on the top. I love that man, he's a genius I tell you.

Since Jack is old enough to communicate (even though this kid was speaking full sentences at 2) I wanted to start a new birthday tradition! I was inspired by Em for Marvelous' Birthday Interview! This is a list of simple and fun questions to ask the birthday kiddo each year. I simply copied the list of questions and made a new note in my phone labeled "Birthday Interview" so that I have easy access to the same set of questions for each birthday.

I created this festive graphic to be easily saved to any phone for quick reference for when it's time to interview!



While he is little I plan to record his answers as a voice memo until he eventually can write them out. I just know hearing his little voice for years to come will be a treasure to me! Plus kids say the FUNNIEST things and Jack's were hilarious. In his own words...

Favorite color: Orange
favorite animal: Monkey
favorite book: Pokemon one
favorite thing to watch: Pikwick Pack
favorite thing to wear: Clothes.. Pokemon clothes
favorite game: Yeti in My Spaghetti
favorite song: The commercial from Yeti in My Spaghetti
favorite breakfast: Bacon and eggs with ketchup on it
favorite snack: Goldfish
favorite fruit: Cherries
favorite treatI just like every one of the candies
favorite place to eat: Chick-fil-A
favorite thing to do outside: Play on the swings
favorite thing to do inside: Play with my Pokemons
favorite toy: Pokemons
favorite stuffed animal: Bongo ( a beanie-baby monkey)
favorite holiday: My birthday!
favorite best friend: Peyton
i am really good at: Playing when I hit the baseballs from the baseball shooter
where i want to go on vacation: Chicago and then come back home
what i want to be when i grow up: Nothing I suppose. I want to be myself.
what we did on my birthday: Went to Nina's, got donuts, and the bowling alley!

Do tell: What are your favorite birthday traditions as a kid? Or what traditions do you do for your kids on their birthdays? 

Which answer of Jack's is your favorite? Mine is most definitely what he wants to be when he grows up. My heart just melted on the spot. That's the best thing anyone can be when they grow up, themselves. :)

Family Vacation to Lake Michigan

November 4, 2020

The best thing that has come out of cancelled plans this year has been last minute vacations. When Mark and I decided to cancel our 5 year anniversary trip to Seattle we tossed around the idea of taking a fall getaway to our favorite side of the state. I'm so glad we did! Our long-weekend trip will be one I will cherish for years to come. 



One can never go wrong with a trip to Lake Michigan. We joke we live in the worst part of the state (even though it's not that bad), but going west or north is like a whole new place. The air is crisp and smells like pine. "Pure Michigan" 100% lives up to its ad slogan. 





Our family of 4 stayed at a cozy cottage in Union Pier. The neighborhoods in the area were so charming. The town is an hour drive from Chicago and so we easily justified the drive to see our fav city which holds so many fun memories for Mark and I. 




When we were dating I would take Mark with me to visit my sister. Mark rang in his 21st birthday here, we spent weekends riding bikes along lake shore drive, and eating the best food.


We took the boys to Millennial park where we ate our Lou Malnati's deep dish, walked around the block, showed the boys the famous bean, and played a game of mini-golf before heading to our AirBNB. 



Jack was all about the za! If you can't tell Peter was too. ;)


Highly recommend eating at the Stray Dog in New Buffalo. I had the shrimp tacos and they totally hit the spot. Peter loved it especially since there were pictures of dogs all over the wall. He's obsessed.


When traveling with 2 under the age of 3 it is helpful to keep expectations low. We spent most our time playing games at the cottage, visiting the lake (we got lucky with a 70 degree day in October), making yummy food at home, and taking walks around the neighborhoods. I joked with Mark that we will be prospecting for a cottage now because 1) the area is breathtaking 2) the time away is so special and 3) it's fun to dream. :)






The best thing we planned was to have a family session on the beach!! Fall colors + Lake Michigan is a beautiful sight in itself so naturally I could not NOT miss this opportunity. 

Oh my word ya'll, Haley Harris, photographer of Willow Acres Co., captured our little family so beautifully. You would have never guessed Peter had a meltdown because he couldn't splash and play in the water. :P Here is a sneak peak of more to come. Let's be honest these photos need their own post. The cuteness is absurd. I'm so grateful to Haley!!


Vacations with littles is no easy feat. BUT I wouldn't trade any of the sweet moments we experienced together. It literally felt like we came off of a camp trip where we shared inside secrets and memories that left a mark on the 4 of us.  

I might be riding on a post-vacation high, but I already told Mark we could totally take our fam across the pond for a European vacay next!? All for the mems, right? ;)